To be upset that he yawns when I kiss or hug him

[Sally150]

Would it upset u if your dp was to yawn and complain abt feeling unwell whilst u was hugging him or kissing him.
I am getting increasingly paranoid when dp does this.

What u think. I would like sex a bit more often but I'm getting paranoid that he avoids it but I'm not certain.

How long have you been together?

Sounds like he's worried you're going to want sex when you hug/kiss him.

How old is he? HOw long together?

3 years together living together 1

He is 42

Do you know what his previous relationships history is like? Lack of sex would be bad enough in the early days of living together but constantly rejecting ANY intimacy in that way is bad.
Personally, I'd ask him if he's gay & in denial. Nothing wrong with being gay but plenty wrong with living a half life for both parties in a heterosexual relationship if you are.
Assuming that your personal hygene leaves nothing to be desired, as I'm sure it doesn't, his behaviour is pretty weird.