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To tell him he's behaviour is annoying me?( new guy )

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resteer · 10/07/2019 08:50

4 months ago I started seeing a new guy.
The last week his been annoying me.
Half way through a conversation on WhatsApp he will read my message then not reply for a hour or more later but at the same time he is keep popping on WhatsApp.
Last night he did it,yet he was snap chatting me whilst he wasn't replying and we had a convo (yet wasn't replying to my WhatsApp)
This morning I woke up and he text me morning etc so I replied,he was replying every 2 mins then he hasn't read my last message but has been online.
It drives me up the wall.
I've seen what he does when he's with me.
He gets the message on his home screen ...puts his phone down then forgets.
Do I tell him it bugs me?
Or will he think I was crazy ?

OP posts:
Raffles1981 · 10/07/2019 17:50

Oh, just read about him telling you about other women coming onto him and their men arguing etc. My ex husband did that at the start of our relationship. A lot. It's a tactic to feel you out. That's shitty behaviour.

Magmatic80 · 10/07/2019 17:52

Him telling you about other women being all over him is NOT a normal healthy relationship. Get out now and get some self confidence before you go anywhere near anyone else. You are better than spending your time worrying over whether you’re good enough. Life’s too short to spend it with someone who likes to make you anxious.

sneakypinky · 10/07/2019 18:33

He's allowed to speak to other people.

He probably isn't thinking of you all the time - people have multifaceted lives.

Stop being creepy and stalking his internet usage. It's weird and obsessive.

fluffyblue · 10/07/2019 18:36

Why does the word 'convo' annoy me so much ..

IfItIsntYerManRobert · 10/07/2019 19:36

Unless he's a dick and treating you so badly that you are questioning everything?

He's not.
He just keeps telling me about this girl who is trying it on with him.

and text me first thing Sunday saying this married woman was all over him

Shock

He absolutely is being a dick and treating you badly! How can you not see that...?

He trying to keep you paranoid and jealous, and it's working an absolute treat.

Why does he do this? Because - look at the effect it's having on you!!

He doesn't sound like a caring man. You can do much, much better OP. The longer you stay, the worse it's going to mess with your head.

It's not meant to be like this. It's meant to fun and easy and enjoyable. Especially in the early days.

Indie139 · 11/07/2019 21:52

Yabu

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