I have an important decision to make regarding whether to stay in my current job or go back to my old job. I have been in total turmoil now for a week weighing up pros and cons, talking it over with trusted friends , making lists, going over every eventuality. It is driving me insane and I feel I am messing people about. I've never felt so indecisive about anything in my life before. I change my decision literally hourly. Me leaving one job could influence the other ( niche job area) in a negative way. Either decision is going to really annoy people.