Want to move back to Leeds but OH doesn't want to

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Lived in Leeds for four years with my first ever boyfriend I loved it so much and miss it to this day! My friends are there and could easily go back to my old job.

OH is a brummie and truly believes in being close to his family.

I feel like I'm putting my life on hold because of him I feel like just going and see if he follows.

AIBU to do this without telling him? It usually ends up in a argument.

Im guessing that you don't live together if you are thinking of moving cities without telling him. How looking have you been together? Why did you leave Leeds in the first place if you live it so much?

I think that if you do move in the hope that OH follows, you might be disappointed and find yourself single (unless that is what you really want).

Well if you want to move go ahead. If he doesnt want to go with you thats his choice