DH has bad hayfever - sneezing, runny nose, itchy eyes - the lot. He 'forgets' to take the pills and nose spray I have bought for him, but uses a large number of tissues! Fair enough - but he leaves them where he uses them - on his desk, on the sofa, on the kitchen counters. I ask him to get rid of them and his usual retort is 'they won't hurt you if you pick them up'! AIBU to not want to get rid of his used tissues or should I shut up and feel sorry for him?