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handbagfettish · 06/07/2019 22:22

Had a small garden party earlier - just a couple of pals. When it was just the two of us left one of my friend's mentioned that she wouldn't be able to go to an event (organised by her - I said I wasn't going at the outset) - apparently I said well that's what she usually did (her version, not mine) - she has gone in a right huff, stormed off and gone crazy. To be fair we had both had a couple of drinks and although what I said was true, I did apologise -she went mental and stomped off. Should I feel bad?

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Soola · 07/07/2019 07:02

I can’t make any sense of that, sorry.

nutbrownhare15 · 07/07/2019 07:06

What did you actually say?

WhiteDust · 07/07/2019 07:08

She organised an event.
You weren't planning to go to the event.
She decides not to go herself to the event & lets others down.
You tell her that she always does that.
She is mad with you.

Is that right?

KatherineJaneway · 07/07/2019 07:08

She's not going to an event she organised?

cantfindname · 07/07/2019 07:35

YABU because no one can understand your post.

FatherDickByrne · 07/07/2019 08:12

Eh?

wheelywheelynice · 07/07/2019 08:28

What?

handbagfettish · 07/07/2019 09:15

WhiteDust exactly. She keeps booking things and organising days out etc. but she quite often doesn't follow through. I really don't think I was as blunt as she says I was but to be honest I was telling the truth. Think I hit a nerve. I text to apologise last night but no response. Don't know if I should phone her?

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WhiteDust · 07/07/2019 09:34

Leave her to her sulk. She sounds flaky.

KatherineJaneway · 07/07/2019 11:45

I'd give her a call, better to talk it through.

IceCreamSoda99 · 07/07/2019 12:12

Argh I knew someone like that! Just let her calm down, don't chase her.

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