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AIBU?

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5 replies

BigRedLondonBus · 04/07/2019 19:01

I live in a gf mainsonette, a few months ago a man moved in above me. He smokes cigarettes out the window and has been throwing the ends into my garden, I have a porch above my front door and when opening my upstairs window I noticed the roof of the porch is covered in them, today I have seen loads outside my front door.

My Aibu is can I just go directly to the council and complain? I’m not good with confrontation so wouldn’t want to approach him directly.

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Hadalifeonce · 04/07/2019 19:04

Surely, you don't have to be confrontational, just ask if he would put his cigarette ends somewhere else, as it's a bit of a nuisance, to constantly have to pick them up.

MyOpinionIsValid · 04/07/2019 19:04

Why cause a fuss by going to the council?
Why would actually talking to him be 'confrontation' ?

Cant you just mention in passing? Point them out?

BigRedLondonBus · 04/07/2019 19:11

Thought I would get these answers. I will just leave it then I’m abit of a wuss, I and never see him in passing anyway so would mean knocking.

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DontCallMeShitley · 04/07/2019 19:32

Buy him an ashtray and leave it by his door.

InTheHeatofLisbon · 04/07/2019 19:33

The council will probably tell you to speak to him first tbh. I understand that you don't like confrontation, but surely just asking him to use an ashtray is not confrontational?;

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