Is this weird? Relatives getting married. They want all children to wear same outfits but they are not page boys or bridesmaids. I can't get my head round it and just find it very controlling since I had already bought my children their outfits but was told they wanted them in something else. BTW they weren't outlandish outfits and they have done it across all the involved families. It's a small wedding of about 15 adults and 8 children. Aibu to think it's a bit bonkers?