So, for the first few weeks ex was having DS for overnights, I was sending a spare change of clothes. Ex was keeping them and saying he was washing them.
After about a month, I asked if I could have his stuff back as I was running out of outfits and having to spend more replacing them and I am the one who runs a home, pays nursery fees, gas, electricity, etc meanwhile he lived at home.
He said okay.
A couple of weeks, I asked again. He said he still hasn't got round to drying them.
We've had to cease contact for the timebeing due to him being a t*at (to put it nicely), and realised today that the last time he collected DS from nursery, he took the outfit there I keep for a spare Incase of leaks or mess etc and brought it home with him (even though he already had 1/2 his clothes there, he took his spare change at nursery!)
It's really bothering me. It might be petty but there's been some lovely outfits I only recently bought him and now I feel like I won't see them again.