To think there's something really wrong

[Misssophie01]

Wise people of mumsnet please help me! Not so much an aibu just wondering if anyone has had similar issues and posting for traffic 😳 I had my son 15 months ago and ever since then, I can t have sex in certain positions as part way through it feels like my partner is hitting something?!

Its a really weird sensation, We're fine for a few minutes but then it's like a sharp pain from inside my belly, he said he can feel something aswell? I had a c section and thought things would have cleared up by now, has anyone else had this happen? Is it fixable?

Have you had a rummage around? Does it feel like it used to?!

I know it can feel embarrassing, but it really is worth asking a doctor. I had problems after babies and finally worked up the courage. I asked for a female doctor and she was great and got me help.

Your cervix is lower now and he's doinking it with the end of his knob

OMG jimmyhill that's hilarious

Haha no before kids it was fine , it's like he's hitting something, currently laying next to a sleeping dh trying not to laugh 🤣 thanks @jimmyhill. I've been googling and wasn't sure if it was a prolapse? Surely I'd have other symptoms though?

@jimmyhill 😂🤣😂🤣

I didn't have any other symptoms, go see your GP and try not to think of jimmyhill 's post while you are there

@jimmyhill

DH is always doinking my cervix now! 😂 You're unlikely to be alone, whatever it is.

A prolapse? After I had my two I noticed sex was painful in certain positions, and a prolapse never occurred to me. I had CSs as well. When I had other problems subsequently and had a colonoscopy the doctor mentioned I had a prolapse. I'm a lot older than you, so manage it with exercise, but if your age I'd be asking for a referral for investigation.

I’m the same since I had my dd 7 years ago, I swear down they stitched me up wrong, now I can’t do my favourite position for more than 2 minutes, which is a bugger 😖

I didn’t have c section.... but feel this 🤔

I was gunna say cervix too

I have a prolapse and this is what happens with me. 😱

Following. Im in the same... Ahem... Position....

I've not had kids but I get this in doggy. I have a low cervix/ shallow vagina

@AquaPris omg me too aqua! But I haven’t actually had this confirmed? What does it mean I’m worried now!

@jimmyhill has it exactly. My dh sometimes hits mine and I get the pain in the belly. Try a position that doesn't go so deep.

Yeah it's the cervix and can be agonising for many minutes if hit too hard.

Might be worth getting checked for prolapse though.

Consult a medic. You might have to ask more than one as, unfortunatley, some HCPs still think that this sort of thing is something women should just put up with.

The inebriati: ....go see your GP and try not to think of jimmyhill 's post while you are there grin

Especially not if you have your legs in stirrups.

Get a nurse to check but I suspect @jimmyhill is right - I have the same issue but other positions are better now, so not conplaining...

I’ve had this for years, thought it was just normal!

I agree with pps, it's definitely your cervix, I have the same thing and get the same pain in my stomach.
It would definitely be worth getting checked for a prolapse.

Haha some of these comments are hilarious! I did countless googling but couldn't find much in the way of threads saying it was hitting something, didn't realise so many of you had the same issue! I also feel a heaviness in my lower abdomen but thought it was normal? Maybe not!