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False friend?

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anivad · 30/06/2019 21:38

I have a lodger who's had minor health issues since moving in and I've always listened to her concerns, driven her to appointments etc. I thought we were friends. She became the only person to know about my egg collection in advance and said she would come to take me home from the clinic and help me out. That was a massive relief to me as DH is overseas. About 3 days before EC her son got into some kind of trouble in Spain (not that serious) and she decided to fly out there. She entirely forgot about my EC. So far so good. I didn't say a word but it came up again in conversation before she left. The day came and went and I heard nothing from her. No good luck, no how did it go. I was really a bit hurt. I had OHSS and was in pain for a full two weeks after. When she came back she remarked that the house isn't that clean. I'm seriously wowed. I feel so disappointed. Now I just want her to leave. Am I crazy?

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falafelaboutit · 30/06/2019 22:05

I'd be upset too but if she hasn't been through this or known anyone who has, is it possible she didn't understand what a big deal it was?

She sounds selfish though I agree.

If it's not working out for you, it may be worth calling it a day. It sounds like it's a stressful time and you may be better off having the space

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