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Know about a cheat

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ojojoj1 · 29/06/2019 12:29

I know a guy who pretends to be a perfect partner but his current partner doesn’t know he is a liar and a cheat . I don’t know the woman I know him . She has 3 children from previous relationship and is a lovely well respected teacher . Not that it makes any difference. I am considering sending her a wee massage but not sure if I should .thoughts ?

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babysharkah · 29/06/2019 12:31

Stay well out of it.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 29/06/2019 12:33

Honestly unless it was my sister or a very close friend I’d keep my beak out. Not hurting someone close to me, couldn’t really care less 🤷🏻‍♀️

Merryoldgoat · 29/06/2019 13:12

I’d want to know.

Jemima232 · 29/06/2019 13:14

If you don't know her, how can you send her a wee message?

I would want to know, BTW. I think you should tell her.

ojojoj1 · 29/06/2019 13:29

Facebook twitter Instagram it sounds like trolling really but it isn’t . This lady seems to have a perfect life and even though the man can be charming he does engage in many sexual encounters on holidays nights out and so on . Swinging and so on . If the woman was single without kids I wouldn’t give a shit but there is 3 young souls involved

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Ginger1982 · 29/06/2019 13:30

Have you been involved with this man?

WomanLikeMeLM · 29/06/2019 13:34

Mind your own business.

ojojoj1 · 29/06/2019 13:36

No I haven’t

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Alsohuman · 29/06/2019 13:37

Mind your own business. She may well already know. Fidelity isn’t a big issue for some people.

Pretendapony · 29/06/2019 13:39

I’d tell her but anonymously. Only if you have evidence to show her though.

BoneyBackJefferson · 29/06/2019 13:41

Not your circus. Not your monkeys

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