We've recently moved into a beautiful house. I am doing some decorating and as this is my dream home I want to make it perfect. I There is the odd thing I cannot do for example light fittings and curtain poles so dh does that. However, when anything like that needs doing he complains that I've got the hardest type of whatever it is to put up, then acts like he's doing me a massive favour, that he is humouring me etc. I am gradually starting to get to the point where I think sod it, I'm not going to bother trying to make a nice home for us. FYI he works full time quite stressful job, I work 3 days. 2 dc over 10. But these are the only things I get him to do in the house.