We were at a drinks party last night and I was talking to two female acquaintances of a similar age to me (early 50s). One of them commented that I didn't have have any wrinkles around my eyes like she did but then swiftly followed it up with "because you're fatter than me". I was shocked and said "did you just say because you're fatter than me" and she laughed and nodded. For the record I'm not skinny but at 5'6 and around 9 stone I'm not really fat. She is very skinny though. I was stunned into silence but I'm going to bring it up with her next time I see her - in fact I will refer to it every time I see her from now on.