So DP religiously has a wank every morning after his shower. He gets up earlier than me so I’m often right in the next room over. This isn’t about ‘why don’t you have sex with me instead’ as I’m suffering with a loss of sex drive lately and I already feel massively guilty about it.
So even though I don’t want sex, I can’t quite put my finger on why I hate him masturbating while I’m home. If I’m out, I honestly don’t care (even though he will do it several times in a few hours sometimes).
Any ideas on why it bothers me so much? He literally cannot go without it even if I’m at home. He has OCD if this has relevance to why he is so compulsive about it.