Too be feeling myself, finally!

[Hadjab]

It’s been a bad five years, my husband had a stroke, then passed away last year. AIBU to finally feel that I love myself again, and am in as good a place as I can be?

YANBU in the slightest. What a peace to have found, after all that you’ve been through. Well done, and I say well done because it isn’t an accident that you feel this way, I’m fairly certain that you’ve put in a huge amount of effort to get to the other side.

I pretty much second everything @thewaronpeace said.
You deserve happiness, especially after a difficult past 5 years, and to be where you are, you've obviously put the effort in and focused on you. Please continue pushing for yourself, you deserve it.

I'm so happy for you op. It sounds like you've had a rough few years.

YADNBU.

It’s fantastic that you’ve made it back to an ok/good place.
for your loss. Well done for picking yourself up from the bottom. Not everyone makes it back so it’s amazing that you have