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To think my newbuild is haunted?

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forsythekt · 18/06/2019 01:11

Outing so have namechanged.

I live on a smallish council estate which 5 years ago was extended with a development of 15 new council houses. I moved 2 months ago as I houseswapped with an old couple and their adult son who needed a first floor flat. I was delighted to swap as it was 3 bedrooms so both my DC (DD 3 and DS 15 months) had their own bedroom and it was on the nicer end of council estates. The reason the past owners are relevant is because I want to clarify that nobody has died in the house.

About 1 month after moving in, we began experiencing a few weird things that have been escalating. It started with little things, like hearing noises downstairs when everyone was in bed and DD's toys randomly going off in the night. After changing DS one night (after opening a new bumper box of nappies) the box fell off the changing table and nappies were all over the floor. It was the early hours and I couln't be bothered pick them up so put DS back in his cot deciding to clear it up in the morning. The next morning I went back in and the nappies were all in the corner of the room. DP thought I was being silly as it's a tiny box room so there was nowhere for them to have moved to, but I remember them in front of the changing table which is in the centre of the room.

It was then quiet for awhile until things picked up again 2 weeks ago. Our dog has been very frightened and is starting into space and barking at the walls. DD keeps coming into our bedroom in the night saying someone is whispering her name. Our usually calm good as gold DS keeps waking up in the night in hysterics and we've had to move his cot into our room. DP's older daughter (14 from a previous relationship) came to stay for the first time last week and shared with my DD. The next morning she said she'd felt a strange presence in the room, but we hadn't told her of our experience. DP was still always skeptical until what happened last night.

Me and DP are in bed cuddling poorly DS and DD was asleep in her room and we heard our dog bark and then a loud bang. Come downstairs to find the cast iron table has moved half way across the living room! And the floor is fluffy carpet so impossible for our lab to have moved it. And a few hours later a door slammed. DP admits that has made him question things. I was utterly bewildered, especially with it being a newbuild so contacted the previous tenants (with it being homeswap we still talk occasionally) to ask if they had experienced anything to which they were insistent they hadn't.

I've been doing my research on the area. It's used to be a quaint
countryside village but a lot of the old cottages, pubs and the post office etc were demolished after the war to build a city overspill estate to get people out of the inner city slums. A few other nearby estates have the same origins. The village still has a few old feautures such as a church and even some old stocks (where people used to have their hands locked in while others threw things at them for punishments) near a playing field! I think our house must be built on top of what used to be a cottage or perhaps people were buried here? Though why didn't they bother the previous tenants?

Eek! Someone tell me I'm going mad.

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wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 15:08

Honestly I've had a number of experiences that I've been concerned about but my rational side says there are 'weird' things going on that I can't explain but they're not spirits.

There are lots of electro-magnetic waves and energies around us all the time - both natural and also from all of the electronics we have and utilities, etc. Also radio waves and such like.

I think some people are just more sensitive to them than others and it causes the cold feelings, feelings of dread, chills/hair up on the back of the neck, noises, visual disturbances which the brain then interprets into a human like pattern. Animals are even more sensitive and hence why they react to things that 'aren't there'.

That's my tuppence anyway.

Another reason I don't believe in spirits is that places where people die all the time - care homes, hospices, battle fields (lots around the UK if you consider every battle that would have taken place back to before Roman times), hospitals, etc would be so full of spirits it would be like walking through a spirit soup wouldn't it?

Even if only a small proportion 'couldn't move on' there would be millions of ghosts given the number of humans that have died in the UK since Homo sapiens moved here. You wouldn't be able to move for the buggers.

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 15:17

the thread about people giving off ‘evil’ vibes, there is palpable energy that comes off of people. Once those people are gone, where does that energy go?

That's not actual energy though. It's just the short hand people use to communicate that things about the person made them feel creeped out but they couldn't put their finger on exactly what.

This is usually a combination of body language and actual language such as odd eye contact patterns, intrusion into personal space (even slightly), the way a psychopath might try to imitate 'normal' patterns of behaviour but not quite get it right so something feels 'off', being subconsciously aware of a predatory type watchfulness.

This isn't actually 'energy'.

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 15:37

All that investment and I've just realised this is an old thread Hmm

wheresmymojo · 07/07/2019 15:37

@forsythekt Did anything else ever happen? Anything caught on the monitor?

TeaForTheWin · 07/07/2019 15:47

It concerns me that whatever it is was whispering your daughters name. I saw something once, only once but it was the most horrifyingly dark thing... that I jollywell hope I never see something like that again (I also felt it looking at me before I turned to face it so 'feeling a presence' is possible).

Since then I have done a lot of reading in the area and usually if something is saying your name...it isn't a 'good' something. I would suggest consulting your local minister/vicar and having him out to do a house blessing asap.

Alternatively do it yourself (maybe consult an expert first though) and the key is to focus on the fact that this is 'your' house and it is not welcome and 'all invitations on or around this property are henseforth revoked'. Apparently it should be the mother that does it.

Of course, it could just be mice. They are quick little sods. But no, sounds like a ghost from everything you've said. Just hope it isn't something like what I saw cause that thing was no casper the friendly ghost that's for sure.

Tistheseason17 · 07/07/2019 15:56

This thread is really interesting.
Hope you get clarity, OP.

Pannalash · 07/07/2019 16:16

What always surprises me is that some people are so closed off from the idea of anything paranormal, yet completely accept that we are living on a planet in space which spins at a 1000 miles an hour

Justathinslice · 07/07/2019 16:18

I'm curious if anything else has happened...?

rainbowstardrops · 07/07/2019 16:19

How's things OP?

Hecateh · 07/07/2019 18:25

Whilst I don't believe in 'ghosts' I do feel there are things that happen that can't be explained with our current knowledge.

I think in many cases it is telling that we see these people when we have been sleeping or are just about to fall asleep where our minds are not under conscious control.
With regards to science and physics, wasn't it Einstein who said that time is an illusion. And 'all time is now' - so one 'theory' is that another 'now' and our 'now' are overlapping.
Although none of this explains a heavy piece of furniture moving.

Hecateh · 07/07/2019 18:54

I have never seen or experienced anything directly ghostly myself but, when nursing, it was not uncommon to be told as part of a shift handover that Ms or Mr X had mentioned when offered a drink that the nurse in grey had just given them one, (only once was this said directly to me by a patient). And we would know that this patient would not be with us by morning (And we didn't have an intruder poisoning people)

wheresmymojo · 08/07/2019 15:52

OP is dead. The ghost got her.

Woooooooooooooo 👻

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