"nasty mummy"

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Visiting parents today. When arrived lifted car seat out of car with sleeping baby in, she woke up when car seat lifted up. Dad's response "oh nasty mummy woke you up". I realise he was just being silly/jokey but I really don't appreciate being called nasty, and especially not in front of my children. Aibu? Maybe I am.

How old are the children?

Yep definitely being over dramatic 🙄

Baby and 3yo. 3yo likes to repeat everything he hears

I wouldn't like it.

There have been lots of threads where grandparents have called the mum 'nasty' to the baby, and it's just unnecessary.

Do it to him, see his reaction.

Yabu

I would let it go.

Yabu, I do this all the time.

Changing nappies, injections, getting clothes on kids, shoes etc -Oh I'm bad to you aren't I?" I've even been known to offer them the number to childline on occasion

He was joking.

Get. A. Grip.

Good grief. Is this the way things are going now?

It wouldn't bother me. He meant it as a joke.

YRBVU.

I'm sure your baby will have forgotten by the time they turn 15. Untill then you'll just have to suck it up being the nasty parent.
Things will eventually get better

Ducks..row..Ltb.

He might be joking but I bet he never says 'nasty daddy' about himself.

OP, how is he apart from this?

Ok I get it, am massively overreacting! Thanks all!

Just ignore it - I'm sure you will be funny mummy, silly mummy, sneezy mummy, dirty mummy, cheeky mummy, grumpy mummy...

If it really upset you maybe a quiet word later on but really it's nothing!