To be terrified my door is going to get kicked in?

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I need to tell ex that I'm pregnant (with new DP) in the next few weeks. I'm really worried about it. He's got a known temper and he's aggressive. We've had an incident in the past few months after the break up where I'd had to ring the police and they hadn't taken it seriously at all so no precautions were put in place.

I'm terrified that something bad is going to happen when he finds out, I have the same dream every night that he's going to kick my door in.

Is there anything I can do to make myself feel safer?
As if stands, it's only myself and DS who live here which is why I'm so scared.

Why doesn't your dp live with you?

Perhaps DP should move in ASAP. I wouldn’t bother telling the ex, let him find out himself.

Why do you need to tell your ex? Is he the father of your son? Does he have any contact with your son?

I would go back to the police and tell them just what you have told us here. That you have solid reason to fear for your physical safety when he finds out you are pregnant.

How long have you been broken up for? Do you still have any communication?

I don't suggest moving your new boyfriend in with you just yet though - it sounds like everything has moved very quickly. Did you want to have another baby so soon?