I’m currently in shock. Discovered my “perfect” husband (been together 6 years) was having an affair whilst I was pregnant, for several months after our baby was born and whilst we were planning our wedding. He put a stop to it a couple of months before we married
This was all 3 years ago but has come out today. I thought we were always really happy, great sex life still, affectionate etc etc
He’s saying it was because I had a difficult pregnancy and he couldn’t make me more worried by talking to me about his fears for the baby so turned to a girl at work got support and one thing led to another.
I can’t see how I can move on from this but we have our 3 year old and my 9 year old loves him like a dad and has already been through this once before
I don’t know what to do