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Worst thing about being single is?....

105 replies

Pjsandbaileys · 15/06/2019 21:43

It's not having someone to do things with it's have someone to do nothing with.....mudane chit chat with, dinner plans, tv watching etc 🙃

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SamBeckett · 15/06/2019 23:32

Right now , no one to scratch my back ! door frames just don't cut it Grin
It can be lonely , there are times when I come home from work and want to talk to someone , rarely anything important just stuff .
I dont have any friends other than a few people I know in my local .

However been able to come and go as and when I please eat what and when I want and not have to put up with sport been on tv all the time is a blessing.

cosytoaster · 15/06/2019 23:34

...managing on one income.
Can't think of any other negatives Grin

SamBeckett · 15/06/2019 23:36

Missillusioned
I could of done with that today I have been cleaning my carpets and my 9 foot sofa weighs a ton !

MintyCedric · 15/06/2019 23:36

Feeling so responsible for everyone/everything all the bloody time...teen daughter, 3 pets and my elderly parents, plus a full time job...frankly it's a bit of a shitter but still easier than being married!

MsMustDoBetter · 15/06/2019 23:40

The freedom? The cash to spend on yourself? Not having to answer to anyone?

fatfluffycushion · 15/06/2019 23:44

When I was single I thought I was ok , quite happy , but since being back in a good relationship I've realised just how bloody lonely it was , ok I did loads of stuff with friends and on my own including lots of trips and adventures but nothing like the fun of sharing with a partner
So I would say loneliness and not being able to share life with someone

GeorgiaGirl52 · 16/06/2019 00:25

No one to kill spiders for you.

FMFL · 16/06/2019 00:30

One income. No one to share the burden with. But other than that, no downsides! I am less lonely now than I was with my cheating ex.

nala15 · 16/06/2019 00:58

Worst thing .... probably all the friends around you married/engaged with kids, house and life's just GREAT Envy

PookieDo · 16/06/2019 00:59

The only downside there is only 1 for me and it’s no sex

Ted27 · 16/06/2019 01:23

Its one of those very subjective questions isnt it. I'm very happy on my own, but there have been times when I have felt very alone so I can understand those feelings.
But I've reached a point where I'm content with life. At the moment I have a nice strapping son who takes the bins, lifts heavy things and plonks a cup of tea at my bedside at 7.15 every morning.

EBearhug · 16/06/2019 01:43

Worst thing is that it's always my turn to do the washing up, put the bins out, deal with the car...

This. Can’t afford staff to delegate it to...

GimmeChocolateNow · 16/06/2019 02:17

I have to make every single cup of tea. I tried training the cats but they never got the colour right 😢

And I'm the only one who ever empties the washing machine, tumble dryer and dishwasher.

Knackeredmommy · 16/06/2019 03:06

On the whole I like being single, I'm not lonely, work full time have the kids and great family & friends. But I do miss the intimacy, snuggling on the sofa, spooning in bed...
I wouldn't want to be single forever.

Singletomingle · 16/06/2019 03:20

Can't think of any downside to being single its much easier and more fun than being in a relationship.

NightCzar · 16/06/2019 03:24

It's rubbish when you're ill as you can go days without seeing anyone.

mokapot · 16/06/2019 03:35

Absolutely bloody nothing

Wincarnis · 16/06/2019 03:47

Nothing! It’s bloody great!

MidLifeCrisis2017 · 16/06/2019 04:15

Changing the quilt cover.

Apart from that, I've got a fantastic life.

Camsie30 · 16/06/2019 05:12

Having to put the bins out on a Sunday evening. Other then that... Nothing!

EmpressLesbianInChair · 16/06/2019 05:21

Nothing. Being single is heaven.

tympanic · 16/06/2019 05:26

@Broombroomshaketheroom Ugh. I may we’ll be a single mother soon enough so would love to hear more about “those” men and how to spot them so I can avoid them. Not that I have any interest in another relationship if/when this one ends. Can you elaborate?

Miniloso · 16/06/2019 05:27

I’m having a better time single than I ever had with my ex! So much more in my life now!

Mumsymumphy · 16/06/2019 05:45

Being asked, "So how's your love life?" (usually asked by smug marrieds). I always reply with, "How's yours?" Soon shuts them up 🤣

StrongerThanIThought76 · 16/06/2019 06:27

Waking up on a Sunday morning after an uncomfortable night tossing and turning - still wearing the pretty dress you put on yesterday to cheer yourself up, because by thr time you got to bed after doing All The Things because there's nobody else to do them, the kids are fast asleep and you can't bring yourself to wake them to unzip the damn thing

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