Am I being unreasonable

[stephaniesc382]

Am I being unreasonable?
My boyfriend of 3 and a half years went to a wedding of one of his close friends and never asked me to go with him. Everyone of his friends thinks he is single and he’s not. Or the one or two that may know I exist just think he’s using me just for sex. Also attending the wedding was at least two of his ex girlfriends. I have taken this as that he has me respect for me and just proven to me he does not love me. Does anyone think I am wrong to be so upset he thinks I am totally out of oder for being so upset.

No you're not BU feeling like this, but you are BU to expect him to change. Get rid, unless you want to be a door mat.

He doesn't see you as his girlfriend. Dump him.

Was he given a +1 for the wedding or was the invitation solely for him?

A plus one

It sounds like he is just using you for sex.

Or the one or two that may know I exist just think he’s using me just for sex

He is.

Here's a clue, he hasn't told everyone about you. If he loved you, he'd want the world to know.
Hell, I'm.in a new relationship, it's been a week, I'm.ready to tell strangers in the street.

In that case get rid of him OP, you deserve better.

Why havent you met any of his friends? Do his family know about you?

Sounds like he IS just using you for sex, and not even with enough respect to introduce you to his friends!!

At 3.5 years i'd be expecting a shared house and i ring on the cards, not to be his dirty little secret.

Are you sure he isn't married?