AIBU to change these 2 things for myself at 58 but feel 90 lol

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Firstly I hate having grey pubic hair....it's course and like a brillo pad....I want soft silky hair down there having it grey makes me feel old and unsexy. I would like to dye it but don't know if it's possible any thoughts please
Secondly my eyebrows are sparse and going white. Thinking of having them microbladded but not like the slug type lol...anyone had them done and what was your experience any tips
Basically I feel frumpy, unattractive, invisible and want to start making an effort .....help

Can't comment on the pubes, but I'm a similar age and had my eyebrows microbladded, I'm naturally blonde and never had eyebrows you could see, without pencilling them in, very happy with the results. She put definition and a bit more bulk in them, nothing like the slugs you see some young women with. It's about 18 months since I had them done and they still look good.

Pubic hair - tough I think, it's not the colour it's the texture and you can't change that. Either get used to it or get rid of it. I got used to mine.

Microblading - great if it's done well, crap if not done well.

I've had mine done, look good with make up - but as I don't normally wear make up look a bit odd - I keep a fringe that 'kind of' disguises it.

I would go to 2 or 3 (or better 5) different places and ask how many they have done? to see pictures of one the individual has done? and show you their range of colours.

You need a grey/blond colour - not dark brown - it doesn't go with mature skin.

Tell them you are checking a few out. Look for someone who is interested in what you want rather that how good they are.

Go lighter rather than darker - you can always go darker, too dark and you are stuck with it. As I am

I'm thinking that when I need a top up I'll see if I can find a tattoo artist rather than a beautician - all day every day rather than once or twice a week

I'm early 60s

I HATE the white pubes too. Just as well no-one gets to see them....