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To think he didn't need to charge me

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memorial · 06/06/2019 19:58

Yesterday I travelled from Cardiff to London for a birthday treat to see Hugh Jackman bought for me by my sister.
I bought my train tickets in advance at £50.
We had a wonderful time though the £20 train ticket back to my sister's house was galling. And again this morning back to London.
I left my sister's house in plenty of time (according to TFL planner). But of course the train was stuck at a red light for 10/15 mins and the tubes were awfully slow.
I raced into the station just to see the train doors closing. Never mind I think it's super off peak midweek I'll get the next train in half an hour.
So I do. Scan my ticket at the gates and settle down for the journey. A busy but not full train with no seat reservations.
About 10 mins in a rather brusque ticket collector comes round. I show him my ticket and he gets quite aggressive loudly telling me I need to buy a ticket. I am genuinely gobsmacked and explain what happened.
He points out (rudely and very loudly) that my ticket was an advance single and only valid on the train I missed.
I am very apologetic and say I usually buy a super off peak and didn't even realise this and again explain how I just missed the train.
He again very loudly and rudely says I can buy a ticket or get off with a fine. He really is talking to me like I am a criminal fare dodger.
So I pay another £50 close to tears. What a horrible end to a lovely birthday treat.
So while I accept that my ticket wasn't valid, did he really need to be so rude and aggressive and surely he could have used a bit of discretion. I clearly wasn't trying to take the piss.
Feeling really sad and disappointed. Have spent £140 on train tickets plus tube and feel like a naughty school child.

OP posts:
GreytExpectations · 09/06/2019 13:20

MarniLou that is a ridiculous and over the top comparison to make. You seem to be confused by the difference between bullying and disagreeing. Myself and others have disagreed with the OP that is no where near the same as bullying. People are allowed to disagree on an internet forum ffs.

ScentsyIndConsultant · 10/06/2019 09:37

As you were on that train because of missing yours due to no fault of your own, then I would try and appeal the extra costs... they have records of trains being late, so fingers crossed you'll get your money back

He was doing his job at the end of the day, but he shouldn't have been rude or aggressive if you didn't provoke him

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 10/06/2019 10:00

but he shouldn't have been rude or aggressive if you didn't provoke him

Even if she did provoke him he shouldn’t have been aggressive

Booksandwine80 · 18/06/2019 20:43

So when he gets bollocked and reprimanded by his manager are you going to explain to them?

Better to pay up to the guard than get a court summons from revenue protection staff.

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