What’s wrong with me!

[Rain161]

I have been with my partner for 6 months, he’s 11 years older everything is brilliant except I have a hatred towards his ex wife! They divorced 20 years ago and are still friends as I am with my ex.
She rings him a lot with stupid questions, comments a lot on social media about how much older than me he looks( he doesn’t) she’s been with her partner for years and honestly looks knackered! so why does she bother me so much?
My partner isn't bothered by her so why am I!! Help!!!

Have you actually even met her?

20 years is a long time they've been apart I'm guessing they have dc together.

Sad how you say she 'looks knackered'

I'm guessing you'd hate her even more if she didn't.

Yes I have met her and she’s perfectly nice, ok maybe the knackered comment was unnecessary, what I meant is she is no threat so why do I dislike her? I have never felt like that towards anyone, maybe I need help! Just wondered if anyone else has felt this way

a threat in any way