"If it is not fraud then no harm done." NOT TRUE!
Especially in the current climate! People who AREN'T doing ANYTHING wrong DO have their money stopped due to malicious, but convincing reports.
It's outrageous that on this its guilty until proven innocent as far as dwp are concerned.
"op if you had said "should I report my friend for benefit fraud" you would have got an overwhelming yes" nope! Go look at all the other threads on reporting suspected fraud - I've NEVER seen one where that's happened and I've NEVER seen one where when challenged the op hasn't either disappeared (like here) or it's become very apparent they cannot possibly know what is actually happening with the person they're considering reporting's finances - mainly because most people don't go around detailing their full finances in public!
"sorry but I think anyone knowingly making a fraudulent claim is more of a worthless piece of shit!" These are very few and far between, most cases occur because the system is ridiculously and deliberately over complicated!
"There are plenty of threads where posters say they have evidence," the threads I've been on where this has been claimed when pushed it becomes apparent they don't actually have evidence. Most commonly "they can't be disabled because they walk/drive/go to the gym" bollocks because obviously ALL disabilities are physical and render the sufferer completely immobile immediately they get a dx 🤔
"OP said that "during this time she was claiming" which I presumed to refer to the past, when the woman was single. Not to now, when she has a partner." That was my thinking too.