They're 13 & 14, until the last year or so we've always had proper meals - dinner and tea or lunch and dinner (dinner is the main meal regardless of the time, tea/lunch lighter). Still do the proper meal everyday (mostly) but just get them to make a sandwich, cheese & crackers, jacket potatoes, salads etc etc for the other. I just can't be bloody bothered. We all sit there together, but eating our own thing. Lazy cow.