Ok, DH has this habit that when he doesn’t want to hear something, such as someone has died or his parents have contacted me despite my telling them not to (long story, they are bullies) he says it’s not true.
He refuses to look at “evidence” (newspapers or emails) to prove it and actually why the hell should I prove anything. I forward the emails from his parents, he says he doesn’t get them or deletes them and says he’s not interested. Then he says they never sent them.
I think he has a problem. What do I do? It seems to be only me he does this to, not sure about at work.
He always said “Nooo!” when he heard something he didn’t like (like when Princess Diana died, he didn’t believe my mother 🙄) but used to go straight to google (rude) and check up. He’d never apologise for implying or saying outright the person was a liar.
Now he doesn’t even check, just says I’m lying. The other day it was suncteam. I saw him spraying cream onto DS’s face and he got it in his eyes. I said it said on the tin that it was not to be sprayed on the face. He called me a liar. It does say it on the tin. I tried to show him later and he had thrown the can away.
His parents are just like this. The older he gets the more he is like them.
AIBU to call the police about his parents or send a solicitors letter so DH knows that I am not lying?