DP pissed off that I’m pissed off at him - toilet habits

[LoveRoyalBlood]

Just got out the shower & washing my face at the sink.
DP comes into the bathroom, sits on the loo & shits.
If he’d told me I’d left the room.
He’s now pissed off ‘how many nappies have you changed ‘ etc
I just find it disgusting

Its a normal bodily function that we all do

Back to the Middle Ages with us all then - chamber pots in every room to be used in front of family, guests and strangers. It’s a normal body function after all 🙄🙄.

Think we’ve evolved beyond that thank goodness - and why we have private spaces called toilets and bathrooms!

I love my family - but have no desire to hear or see them perform their ‘normal bodily functions*

*I think it's in the same category of deliberately eating with your mouth open not putting your hand over your mouth when you yawn picking your nose and public excetera
it's a deliberate lack of politeness and lack of consideration for the other person.

Obviously if you are people who have all agreed that you are all cool about this kind of thing then that's fine, but this isn't the case here is it.*

100% what pp said ^

Also, those who have said they/partner suffer with a lack of control... That's also not the case here.
I don't understand why OP didn't just leave but that doesn't stop it being the kind of behaviour that would really put me off of someone!
(The way he ate and farted once comfortable in the relationship is a big part of why my ex is my ex!)

Also agree on the separate toilet thing. It would make total sense if a bloody sink was in there too.

Ergh.
My ex p used to do that and then would whinge when I wouldn't want sex with him. It out me right off

LoveRoyalBlood He hasn’t done it before because I’ve always been absolutely adamant I hate it/thought of it.

And that is it really he knew she hated so did it deliberately. The lack of respect of her feelings is what makes it so bad.