I had to go away for work this weekend fri - monday. I left DH with the two kids. Saturday morning he gets a last minute deal on taking them away for the weekend, and they all go away too. Fair enough thinks I, good on him for taking them away on his own. (But i'm also slightly sad that they've gone away without me while I have to work, but keep that to myself)
We both got back yesterday. Him and kids about 6pm, me at 1030. When I got back the place is a mess (i.e. exactly as I left it plus friday and saturday's mess, plus unpacking and he's playing computer games. Anyway I hold my tongue, because I am chuffed did nice stuff with the kids.
Any way's he's off to work at 7 this morning and I've got kids and school run. To find there's no milk or bread, no clean uniform ,schoolbags have been unpacked and used for trip away, school stuff god knows where, coats in car still etc etc....but I hold my breath and only ringhimtocalmly ask where coats are.
Then tonight when I get back from school run I can't find another few things, including lighter matches in kitchen to make dinner, so i finally crack and ring ring to ask him where it is, get a bit annoyed and say I'ma bit annoyed he's left to pickup all the pieces.
He hangs up on me, won't answer his phone and has texted me to let me know i'm out of order as he's been away all weekend and not had time to do housework
who's being unrerasonable?