To think this is odd .....

[Anothernamerchanger]

DH and I been going through some trauma, but relationship seems pretty solid. Last night I noticed he got out of bed in the middle of the night with his phone and went to the bathroom in the back of the house, basically in an area of the house we don't use. It's generally just used by guests. He was out of bed for nearly an hour I'd say. Longer than say if he needed the toilet. Plus we have a separate, private toilet in our ensuite. When he came back to bed, he was all over me trying to wake me for sex. Fair enough, but I was exhausted and brushed him off. He travels for work and is often hard to get hold of. Won't pick up his phone etc. when he's always glued to it when he's here. Something isn't stacking up but I'm just not sure what ...... it am I just reading too much into?

Could have been looking at porn or having a wank or both.

Probably porn or yh a wank

I’d assume porn.

Porn probably

I’d say porn too

My first thought was that he was texting someone else.

Sorry OP no one sneaks out of bed in the night for an hour with their phone for any good reason. I think you need to investigate. Porn alone doesn't explain why he isn't contact able when he's away

Did you not just ask him?

You wouldn't need to get out of bed to text someone though.

I would have to ask him and just see.. would he lie if you confronted him and would you know if he was lying?

Taking Viagra and waiting for the impact?