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Kissing

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Champagnetaste · 10/05/2019 22:01

Daft question, when your kissing passionately do you use tongues? My husband and I don’t however I know from being with others that they do but it doesn’t float my boat

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Driftingthoughlife · 10/05/2019 22:16

It’s a question of what you are both happy with. If you both prefer without tongues then it’s a win win
On the whole I prefer without tongues but now and again I love a good passionate snog with tongues when in the moment and my DH is the same
The problems come when one of you likes it with and the other without

Beansprout30 · 10/05/2019 22:17

I don’t think it would feel right if the tongues weren’t being used!

ShirleyPhallus · 10/05/2019 22:17

I love a good game of tonsil tennis

I dated someone who used to kiss without tongues and it was so weird. All dry! Very odd.

Driftingthoughlife · 10/05/2019 22:22

As I said does it feel good to you and you partner op. If it does then nothing to neither about it’s just what you prefer

Driftingthoughlife · 10/05/2019 22:22

Sorry that was meant to be nothing to worry about

Freshstartmaybe · 10/05/2019 22:23

Oh god I miss kissing!

Leftielefterson · 10/05/2019 22:24

Tongues all the way. I do love a good snog with tongues!

Igotthemheavyboobs · 10/05/2019 22:26

I don't like it with tongues op! You're not alone Grin

I don't judge either way, I just personally hate the feel. It's not DP either, I hated it with all the many others too Wink

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 10/05/2019 22:27

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youngestisapsycho · 10/05/2019 22:28

How do you kiss passionately without tongues? That’s just pressing lips together? I’m confused!

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Champagnetaste · 10/05/2019 22:29

Another daft one, I don’t really know how to use tongues.... any pointers

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LilouBlue · 10/05/2019 22:29

Don't like tongues for EVERY kiss. I went on a date with a guy who tried to stick his tongue down my throat constantly. I really liked him so I tried to make it obvious that I wanted to kiss him just not with tongues but he wasn't getting it at all so I ended up leaving. Shame really because he was lovely.

Current boyfriend is the best kisser I have ever known, we don't always use tongues but when we do we both want to and it feels great.

SimonJT · 10/05/2019 22:29

Tongues always, I would find it a bit odd without, but whatever floats your boat.

OldAndWornOut · 10/05/2019 22:32

I would say it takes a little bit of practice to get great snogs going with someone new.
Some swirl around, some poke about a bit, some stick their tongue right down your throat. Ugh!

Laiste · 10/05/2019 22:32

DH and i used to kiss for so long that my lips would be red and sore the next day BlushGrin

We do still kiss deeply often - but not for 2 or 3 hours at a stretch any more. We can get more creative now we're no longer confined to the back seat of a car ...

EC22 · 10/05/2019 22:45

Always! I’m not a goldfish.

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