family

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pinky12 · 06/05/2019 21:23

Does anyone else has this problem. My partner and child spend more time with her family than with me. she complains i am never home as i work long hours to provide for the family.should i leave.

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LucyAutumn · 06/05/2019 21:55

More info. Do you work a lot? Does she mainly visit her family when you are working?

Sirzy · 06/05/2019 21:57

When your not working do you make time to spend with them?

Quartz2208 · 06/05/2019 22:00

WHY on earth would you leave just because she spends time with her family

Is there a backstory

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pinky12 · 06/05/2019 22:20

yes, i have to work late sometimes, so she will go and stay with them for the last 3 months every weekend. my son hardly knows me, I am home when not working but still she will go.

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iVampire · 06/05/2019 22:21

How old is DC?

IsYourGoogleBroken · 06/05/2019 22:26

I'd leave. She's using you to fund her lifestyle.

6079SmithW · 07/05/2019 00:45

@pinky12 Why would your first response be to leave?
Are there other issues in your relationship? Is your partner going to her family because she feels lonely when you are not there or to get away from you when you are there?
If no issues surely this can worked out by sitting down together and negotiating time spent at home/time spent with family.

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