Hi all, just posting for some perspective!
Nc :-)
So dh and I have been together 13 years this year. Currently expecting our first baby soon so I am tbh feeling pretty unattractive and generally a bit shitty about myself.
Dh has just been away with work and came back tonight. When he got in he said he wasn't hungry for tea and got straight into bed with me. This isn't unusual as I was already in bed as I'm knackered atm! Anyway dh always puts his ring on my side of the bed with mine (I have a dish for them) so I said pass it over. To which he told me he took it off today as he didn't want to damage it while working? I've never heard of him doing that before and it didn't make much sense to me as he doesn't do particularly manual labour? Also his ring is platinum so hardly flimsy!
Aibu to be a bit worried ? For context I know I have low self esteem atm and feel insecure. We haven't been having a lot of sex as I am heavily pregnant and also before that as we were somewhat anxious during this whole pregnancy (previous losses but I know sex doesn't cause those!)
I'm fairly confident he has been away with work rather than anything shady as he sent me a picture last night from where he was working and I can clearly see something in the background telling me the time/date etc (trying not to be outing but basically a clock type thing).
He has been a great dh so far although we have had some issues with him looking at other women online (not contacting them etc just being on their fb) but as far as I'm aware that stopped years ago. He swears he would do nothing to risk losing his family.
Someone please tell me I'm just being ridiculous!