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To have left him stuck in the cellar?

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FreddysTash · 02/05/2019 14:13

We have a new starter at work who is a pain in the arse. He’s shadowing me and constantly disappears and is always off exploring rather than doing what he should be doing. This morning we were in the office and he asked me where he should put clinical waste. I told him we put it in the cellar but that we didn’t have time to do it now as we had to go out of office. He said he’d be quick. I said no because it takes ages to get down there, he’d need codes for the lift down there, and two different doors. He grabbed a pen and paper and asked me for the codes. Getting frustrated I wrote down the codes and told him to be really quick and off he goes.

15 minutes later he’s still not back so I check time and decide if he isn’t back by half past I’d do without him. Half past came so I packed up and headed to my car. I’d just set off when I got a frantic phone saying he was stuck in one of the rooms in the cellar. I told him to repeat the code he had and it was right so I said he’d just have to keep trying. I drove off. 5 minutes later he started ringing again. I ignored it. All in all 4 missed calls. I rang him back and he admitted he was in a different room and that’s why the code wasn’t working. I told him I’d be back at lunch. It was 9.45 at the time. He started getting irate saying it stunk down there, it was freezing, pitch black and the wind was hammering on the fire doors. I left him until 11. AIBU as he got stuck because he went where he wasn’t supposed to go?

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Supermum29 · 03/05/2019 20:34

I’m sorry I’m in the yabu camp here!
I got trapped somewhere on holiday a few years back and it’s caused me to have terrible claustrophobia now.
Rally unprofessional, unkind and quite dangerous sorry.

Villageidiots · 03/05/2019 20:35

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bethy15 · 03/05/2019 20:38

Also, if you didn't want to come back, the least you could have done would be to phone someone else to let him out.

TheGrey1houndSpeaks · 03/05/2019 20:39

I see op hasn’t returned to put us out of our misery about how he got in but couldn’t get out again.

Almost as if she’s realised she’s painted herself into a corner with an unexplainable twist. Shame.

Schuyler · 03/05/2019 20:46

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TatianaLarina · 03/05/2019 20:52

He chose to remain in the cellar rather than alert his nearby colleagues to his misbehaviour. That was his choice.

All the rest is standard AIBU bandwagon bollocks.

QueenOfTheTofuTree · 03/05/2019 20:52

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bethy15 · 03/05/2019 20:59

*He chose to remain in the cellar rather than alert his nearby colleagues to his misbehaviour. That was his choice.

All the rest is standard AIBU bandwagon bollocks.*

He wouldn't be in any trouble. OP sent him down there, it's on her as his supervisor.

And lets be honest here, she probably told him he would be in shit, but what she really meant and knew, is that SHE would be. He's new and she sent him down there and then left him and then ignored his calls. It all falls back to her.

WipeYourFeetOnTheRhythmRug · 03/05/2019 21:03

“My DD is caustrophobic and would have had a panic attack and passed out if trapped in a room in the light never mind the dark and the OP would have been screwed.“

Relevant 🙄

AngelinaNeurosurgeon · 03/05/2019 21:06

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Serialweightwatcher · 03/05/2019 21:20

You said you didn't tell manager because you were trying to keep him out of trouble, but you gave him the codes to enable him to be down there and he wouldn't have been without having them, so you were saving your own skin I assume? Not a nice thing to do at all - being down there would have sent me into major panic mode ... rotten trick to pull

MsMustDoBetter · 03/05/2019 21:37

He sounds like hard work, hopefully this will incident will stop him from dickish behaviour in the future. You're doing him a favour really!

LouMumsnet · 03/05/2019 21:44

Thanks for all the reports about this thread.

Can we just remind you to please not troll hunt on the boards? It's always better to report posts to us directly so that we can take a look. We've already deleted a fair few troll hunting posts on here as it is.

Thanks all.

Sissyjd · 03/05/2019 21:48

What is troll hunting? Sorry but genuinely dont know

DecomposingComposers · 03/05/2019 21:48

Surely even if the OP thinks this man is useless or insubordinate or whatever, the correct action is to inform his line manager or whoever is completing his evaluation?

How is it right to cover up his shortcomings? He'll end up being kept on because she's not told the relevant people.

Whichever way you look at it OP has failed to do her job properly. Either she's been a bully and breached H and S law or she's nit performed well as a mentor.

Orange6904 · 03/05/2019 21:54

What kind of place is it? Codes for the lift and 2 codes to dispose of the waste to a dungeon that stinks? Weird.

floraloctopus · 03/05/2019 21:56

Troll hunting is basically going out looking for people who you think aren't being honest, i.e. making up controversial threads to get the attention. MNHQ want people who suspect troll to report the post to them instead of accusing people of being a troll.

Drogosnextwife · 03/05/2019 22:35

Yes yabu and bloody nasty and irresponsible.

Wondering how he managed to get into a restricted area, if you need a code, and then couldn't get out Hmm considering he wrote down the 2 codes that you gave him, that he did need.

AuldJosey · 03/05/2019 22:38

Can we have bets on what's in the cellar that entices a wandering employee?

Clues we have so far:
There's a lift
You need a code for the lift
Clinical waste is involved
There is a cellar
There is a one-way door in the cellar - you may go in - but you can't come out.

My money is on chimpanzees being experimented on in the Houses of Parliament?? Deep in the dungeons of Westminster!

TatianaLarina · 03/05/2019 22:41

He wouldn't be in any trouble. OP sent him down there, it's on her as his supervisor.

If you read the thread she didn’t send him down there she told him not to go down as they didn’t have time. He asked again, she said no.

She told him to phone one of the people in the office to let him out, he chose not to as he wasn’t supposed to be down there. He did something similar earlier in the week and got bollocked for it. That was his choice.

DecomposingComposers · 03/05/2019 22:43

If you read the thread she didn’t send him down there she told him not to go down as they didn’t have time. He asked again, she said no.

And then she wrote down the codes that enabled him to go down there.

Maybe if she had stuck to "no" it wouldn't have happened. That is down to her.

AuldJosey · 03/05/2019 22:44

Maybe the employee is working undercover and wants to snoop around and really isn't a gormless idiot at all! That ever cross your minds? He could be a Russian spy!! Does he speak Russian OP? *Scratches nose and says hmmm.........

AuldJosey · 03/05/2019 22:45

Does he have a white cat that you know of OP?

gingerbiscuits · 03/05/2019 22:48

OMG you truly awful person - he's new, keen & trying to bloody learn - he should report you & you should be reprimanded!!

TatianaLarina · 03/05/2019 22:48

And then she wrote down the codes that enabled him to go down there.

She reluctantly wrote the codes down and told him to be quick.

Maybe if she had stuck to "no" it wouldn't have happened. That is down to her.

He’s not 5 years old. If he had listened to no it wouldn’t have happened. If he hadn’t wandered off into a room for which he didn’t have the codes, it wouldn’t have happened. If he had called his work colleagues he could have got out immediately. He chose not to. That’s on him and no-one else.

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