Dps best mate and his wife are due in the summer. His mates sis organised a baby shower for the expectant mother at a local club. Lots of people going.
I said I'd go despite not liking this sort of things and also not knowing anyone there apart from the mum to be. But I'd seen a few people at a previous event.. This is huge for me as I struggle with social anxiety but had been telling myself it'll be OK and I'd drive so I can leave when wanted rather than dp dropping and collecting me.
After accepting the invite, purchasing gift etc. I discovered I was pregnant. However a week later I MC. this was less than 2 weeks ago.
The shower is on Saturday and I just can't face it.
I feel awful for now not wanting to go. And what would I even give as a reason as don't want to say the real one. There will still be lots of people there.
I know they've organised food etc and personalised games
Its all Organised on a WhatsApp group chat.
What do I do.?
I'd give the gift still when we see them