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AIBU?

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Marriage ended via text

6 replies

AvocadoYUK · 22/04/2019 22:21

So a month ago my husband decided he wanted to split up. I never thought he'd want to break up ever but here we go...
Anyway, for a week he went from I don't love you to "I love you lets work this out" to I need time to think.
Sooo I went to visit my parents for a bit with our baby to give him space. He then texted me saying he wanted to come over to theirs and talk (being 4hr train away) in 2 weeks to talk about us, I replied saying I would be back by then but if it was urgent to come that weekend. (To which he declined with some loose excuse about having dinner with his mum who lives a 2 minute walk from our home..) . So he basically said he wanted to split up and wanted a divorce VIA a text there and then...
AIBU to be pissed off? AIBU to think he ended our marriage via text?? :-( :-( :-( x

OP posts:
AsleepAllDay · 22/04/2019 22:22

I'm so sorry. That was so rude and of course you deserve a face to face conversation.

tenbob · 22/04/2019 22:23

I’m so sorry for what’s happened

Could there be anyone else involved?

Merryoldgoat · 22/04/2019 22:26

OW alert.

Absofuckinglutely · 22/04/2019 22:29

I would bet there's an OW on the scene. What a shitbag to say that by text. How are you coping op?

Paddy1234 · 22/04/2019 22:38

I am so so sorry 💐

julensaor · 22/04/2019 22:46

other woman for sure, don't engage with him again, I feel angry for you.

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