Most attractive attributes of women

[Soundsgoodtome]

Following on from another thread , I was thinking about women in particular ... what are women’s most attractive attributes , both personality and physically, to you ?

Confidence

Not giving a shit about the spurious opinions of others.

Versatility/being fabulous multitaskers

Courage and resilience

Confident walking! Head up, shoulders back and with purpose!

Don’t ask me, I’m hideous

That 'I've totally got my shit together' kind of poise. I met a woman today who used to be in the army, and as soon as she told me this I realised that's where it comes from- that kind of disciplined, 'tight', totally sorted thing (which I absolutely do not have)

I don't think it can be faked, and the people who have it probably find it a burden.

Not being a pleaser
No nonsense
Sense of humour
The kind of person who isn’t afraid to be unpopular

Ok I’ll bite.
Well thought out opinions to make good conversation - personality

A sense of style that is personal to them, needn’t be radical but it’s their own look somehow - physical

Wisdom. Someone said to me today “your so wise” and I took it as a big compliment. A lot of us do seem to go through so much and over time we do develop a certain wisdom. I also think it links in to things like confidence and the not giving a shit attitude.

Warmth. Openness. Give and take. Self deprecation (cultural thing I guess). Moral courage that allows for compromise because it's about people not ideology. Other sexes with these attributes are available but seem to take a bit longer to get there.

In order of importance,
Arm wrestling skills.
Meatloaf trivia knowledge.
Shoe size.

ladymalfoy

I think you'll get very different answers on a female-dominated forum such as MN than you would on somewhere like Reddit, pistonheads or overclockers....

To be elegant, natural (no silly lips of rubbery faces), carefree and kind.

With sharp wit and many interests.

Witt, kindness, intellect, drive, poise, elegance, class, style, velvety voice, obvious asthetics - good skin, hair, figure, bone structure

Not giving a shit about the spurious opinions of others

Yes to this!

Kindness
Smiliness
Good teeth
Good skin
Being animated, quick to laugh, positive.

agree with Phil some very right on responses here

ladymalfoy wins the thread!

Even taking the question at face value, surely this is one of those "how long is a piece of string?" questions. Some people may value intelligent conversation at number one in their list of attributes, some may value kindness, others reliability... Or were you asking what a heterosexual man would be attracted to in a woman he wanted a relationship with/quick shag with (suspect the lists for those are different from one another too)?

Super responses! It’s empowering to read Through all of these and recognise women through them .. my mother, sister, friends, colleagues. The women whose attributes I find attractive are not afraid to question obvious wrongs, self contained, quirky and funny . Loves mane of dark hair and tan skin aswell as good teeth ! Really enjoying reading the responses .

Intellectual curiosity. Tolerance.

Not reading think and thinking do I have these ?

Accepting you are who you are x

Both men and women’s opinions I guess . I think female attributes we admire in character may be similar for men and women ?