Hi,
Any advice would be gratefully received.
Last November I was in the process of applying to my local council to delay my ds school start date, he has various delays (speech, understanding etc). I asked ds school nursery teacher if they agreed with what i was doing and if so could she provide a brief sentence stating this to support my case. Teacher said she agrees with me and that she knows ds is not ready. Conversation ended with the promise that my letter would come. Two reminders later, the deadline for submissions came and the letter never materialised. I assumed that the letter was sent directly to the council.
Fast forward until last month and I found out that I had won my delay but letter never materialised. A few days later I had a parents evening with teacher and asked what had happened and was told head teacher had told her not to write it. I explained that I thought she should have told me that when she knew that the letter was never going to happen she could have told me. She was quite dismissive really.
The problem is that I now dread taking my ds to school and teacher deliberately stays out of my way. I have another 18 months of this and suddenly i can't bare it any longer. I wish i had said something sooner but i can't change that but I can improve things or should i just let sleeping dogs lie? Hibu?