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To not understand this nursery trend?

187 replies

Habbs · 21/03/2019 16:59

Since being pregnant and constantly looking at baby stuff on Instagram my entire discover is full of baby related content. All I see is floor to ceiling white/grey nursery's, with all white furniture, big fluffy white rugs.. kids bedrooms all in muted colours, mainly white and grey, very gorgeous to look at.. but AIBU to think surely these aren't what kids want? And surely it's a recipe for disaster having SO much white? I feel like if the little ones had the choice it would be a lot more colourful and a bit more fun. Some examples attached!

To not understand this nursery trend?
To not understand this nursery trend?
To not understand this nursery trend?
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small2018 · 23/03/2019 22:39

The images in the opening post are so BORING! And the 3rd one with the giraffe looks cluttered and full of crap.

AnnaNutherThing · 23/03/2019 22:43

Well one person's aesthetics is another's Instaphoto-fakery, tis true.

PengThePenguin · 23/03/2019 22:53

Our DDs nursery is a jungle theme, I painted it myself. It's mostly a light green with a tree and animals on the walls. She's actually really interested in the floor to ceiling giraffe, she seems to like it's spots Smile

AnnaNutherThing · 23/03/2019 23:00

Sounds interesting!

DappledThings · 23/03/2019 23:04

I hate white walls. White anything really. Hate white clothes and bedding.

Painted nursery duck egg blue for DC1 before he was born. We didn't know the sex, just like blue and thought it was a nice shade for a baby.

Now have a blue lounge, blue study, green library, yellow kitchen, green bedroom and DC rooms are green and lilac. Hallway might end up staying white I suppose.

SadOtter · 23/03/2019 23:10

@LipstickHandbagCoffee I suppose they are nursery cliches, but I liked them and my kids liked them. DD is 10 and still has a sea themed bedroom despite having moved house since then, she chose and helped me decorate. Plain white rooms just reminds me of years of renting where we weren't allowed to decorate.

SadOtter · 23/03/2019 23:11

@PengThePenguin that sounds beautiful.

LipstickHandbagCoffee · 23/03/2019 23:18

Animals,spaceships,shapes,nature yes imo it’s all decoration by tick box
And if that what one likes,gravitates to, then that is great.
Conversely I don’t expect everyone to like my like for white,uncluttered aesthetics

fullprice · 23/03/2019 23:19

I love colour and prints but I was told for sleep hygiene reasons baby do best in a calm muted space. If you move them Into their own room at 6-12months then Lots of primary colours are exhausting for them.
But there is a definite trend right now for certain accessories. It’s all so try-hard

WYP2018 · 23/03/2019 23:20

I like them myself. None of my kids ever entertained sleeping in their rooms as babies though, so it really made no difference how I decorated them!

LipstickHandbagCoffee · 23/03/2019 23:20

My kids all had their own rooms from birth,no need move.they were already there

PickAChew · 24/03/2019 00:36

How many kids and ow many bedrooms did you have, Lipstick? The average british family lives in a 2 or 3 bed house.

PaintingOwls · 24/03/2019 02:05

I fucking hate the grey trend with a burning passion and I don't care for it in nurseries either.

Catsinthecupboard · 24/03/2019 02:50

Do as you wish with colors. Trends change, statistics change. Styles are always moving bc it's how people make money.

I am old and both dm and dgm collected antiques. I probably know more about decorating than 6 people need to know.

THIS is what I've learned after decades of estate sales: it doesn't matter.

I've been in perfect homes by fancy designers, pretty homes by talented amateurs and hoarder hovels.

Not one of those or any other category had a lock on happiness, peace or any other important thing in life. Including offspring success.

In fact, some of most "perfect" homes had most miserable adult children.

One friend had spotless home. Her dd attempted suicide. Another person who struggled with chronic illness and housework: dd at top uni.

What children need is love and attention and happy, patient parents who also have common sense.

Also. Keeping up with anyone is useless. I knew a group at school who HAD to follow Mrs.HappyPants. Grrrrr. I watched them bow and scrap and follow her lead. Mrs HP moved. What was the outcome?

Nothing. Years spent ignoring their own ideas for someone who left. What.a.waste.of.time.

Yes, i think that some trends need to be followed to help children fit in.

However, your home? Don't waste your life following trends. It's not as important as following your own likes and dislikes.

My motherinlaw put her home above all else. She's dead. Her much loved stuff is being split up or sold. This is her legacy; nice things her family resents bc she liked it more than her dgc.

When i die, i want people to say i was kind funny, loving, staunch defender of my loved ones and i didn't follow trends, i did what i wanted.
Do what you want. Life is sooo very short and fragile. Gray. Rainbows. Pink or blue. Enjoy it bc dc will be grown and annoyed at you very quickly.

Verynice · 24/03/2019 04:24

I think those rooms in your OP are beautiful. Particularly 1 & 2.

mrshousty · 24/03/2019 07:26

I have a 4 month old and 4 years old..5 next month x

I never did the whole nursery thing as it is recommended baby stays in your room until age of 1 so didn't see the point and kids aren't going to care what colour their room is. We decorated my ds room when we moved into house 10 years ago and haven't touched it since and hes never said a word! You're the one that has to live with if and it's your house! However if you look into colour therapy then nice vibrant colours are meant to be good for stimulation. In saying that, I'm going to b&q tomorrow for pastel pink and grey to paint my dd room and I'm only doing it to keep my mind off going back to work in September. She'll probably not be in until next year 🤩😍

StarlingsEverywhere · 24/03/2019 07:52

It’s funny that Lipstick has a liking for a white uncluttered aesthetic but other people have decorated by tick box. Is that one of those irregular verbs?

I have an uncluttered aesthetic
You decorate by tick box
Her house looks tacky as hell/stuck in the 80s

This despite uncluttered white and grey being so ubiquitously trendy that everyone on Instagram is doing it.

madeyemoodysmum · 24/03/2019 07:54

I agree with op. Sick stains yellow anyway so it won’t blend in.

littlebillie · 24/03/2019 08:02

Babies need something to look at we had a bright mobile with black and white patterns* and shapes playing Mozart. The room was about what dc needed not the aesthetic scheme suitable for a adult bedroom 🙄 read up on what your baby needs -black out curtains warmth and colour. This is fashion not what baby needs *

BTW black and white patterns help brain And eye development

MariaNovella · 24/03/2019 08:03

“White, uncluttered” decoration is about as high street tick box as it is possible to conceive!

MariaNovella · 24/03/2019 08:10

It always seems to be that people whose homes are “white and uncluttered” are probably terrified of their own lack of imagination and taste. An aesthetic vacuum seems infinitely preferable to them than their own lack of personal aesthetic judgement.

Barbarafromblackpool · 24/03/2019 08:11

‘Tis fashion.
I’ve gone for something like these photos, but it looks trashed most of the time. Which I suppose is fair enough for a child’s room.

To not understand this nursery trend?
To not understand this nursery trend?
To not understand this nursery trend?
CountessVonBoobs · 24/03/2019 08:15

read up on what your baby needs -black out curtains warmth and colour. This is fashion not what baby needs

Grin this is now officially the silliest thing I've read on Mumsnet. Good thing the Social Services team specialising in neglectful decor is going to get a lot of leads from this thread, eh!

CalamityJune · 24/03/2019 08:16

No point having a pristine nursery anyway because you'll be bought all sorts of gifts which are nice but 'ruin the aesthetic'.

I went for grey and yellow with white furniture but the stuff on the shelves is very colourful. The sheepskin rug got vomited on a few months ago.

MariaNovella · 24/03/2019 08:18

Yes, I thought our hardwood period floors were very practical during the vomiting years!

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