So many people think that they can behave as they want to, and treat/speak to people terribly but as soon as anyone behaves in a similar way to them, they absolutely hate it and throw their toys out of their pram.
I am tired of walking on eggshells around our next door neighbour. She is very loud and shouty and is constantly shouting very loudly at her children, yet if my children make even the tiniest noise in the garden in the summer she comes round to complain. Yet will happily have a BBQ at her house that goes on until 3am with lots of loud behaviour. She is also constantly having work done on her house, such as having a convervatory, having her roof cleaned, having decorators round, all of which is noisy and involves vehicles parked outside her house, yet come to our house shouting if our window cleaner is here and has parked his van outside our house.
Another example is the mum of one of DD's friends. She is always phoning other parents if they even so much as look at her DD in the wrong direction, and always tries to fight her DD's battles for her (the girls are 15). She is now not talking to me anymore as she phoned me recently as my DD hadn't replied to a text her DD sent her, and I said I didn't think there was any point in talking about teenage girls fallouts or issues as they just sort things themselves. Our DDs are very good mates anyway and I've not had that many calls from her over the years (they've been friends since nursery). Some mums got several calls per school term from her at primary school!
Why are some people like this? They act as though they rule the fucking world but hate anyone else saying or doing anything!