About my choice of kitchen

[cittigirl]

Fwiw I don't think I am but am interested to hear other p.o.v

Ok, I'm wanting to re-do my kitchen. I've chosen a couple of cupboard doors that I like. One is the same as a friends with the exception it has handles and hers don't. My kitchen is completely different, about a 3rd of the size for a start, different lay out etc so imho it won't look anything like hers.
She's said that she doesn't want me to have the same!
Is she b.u or am I?
I've not picked it because she has it but because in my small kitchen it is a good option.

I've not made up my mind at all yet but this has put me off doing it at all at the moment and I'm peed off.

She's odd. I have a white gloss kitchen like thousands of other people I know. It's the other stuff that makes it look like MY kitchen.

Your friend is being a dick

She doesn't own a kitchen that's freely available to buy in a store. YANBU.

That is so strange. Do what you want with your kitchen.

Your friend is an arse. YANBU

I think most new kitchens these days are either plain white or grey.

One of my BILs was in Howdens the other day, and one of the staff was staggered because he'd just taken an order for some units that weren't white or grey for the first time in over a month.

They were cream.

Is it particularly unusual - like pink or bright blue? If it is I can slightly see where she is coming from, but she is still unreasonable.

I'm guessing it's probably white, wood, cream or some shade of grey, in which case it's the same as 90% of all kitchens, so hardly unique

Thanks all. Yes it's grey. Tbh there is very little out there. Bog standard shaker or plain really unless you have hand built. The tongue & groove I don't like.