Alone forever!!

[Escumator]

Several months out of an abusive relationship. Met someone else. Spotted signs early on he to is kore than likely abusive. Now I feel as though il forever be alone.

Is there any single mums of 4 or aibu in expecting a decent person to come along?

Im a single mum of 4 and have been single for 3 years. Its only lately ive started to thinj about dating. Why not take a break from dating rather than jumping from one relationship to the next?

Single mum of 4 split in October- am waiting a looooooooonnnnnnnnnnnggggggggg time before thinking about anything but repairing me, building up me, knowing me, learning about me. Focusing on the kids and myself. Developing who I am a person without abuse and control. Most of all healing and breathing.

My DIL is a mum to 5 and met a lovely bloke with one child. Rock solid and kind. They've just moved in together. They tend to come along when you aren't looking for them in my experience.

What bobbycat said with bells on