I have a MIAM next week. My ex was emotionally abusive towards me for quite a long time. I left with our son. I'm worried I won't get across how much he's damaged me and my life. I am fully expecting him/her to say that mediation is not suitable. WIN stupid to write a statement outlining things to read at the beginning of the meeting so I know I've said everything I need to say? Or is that a stupid idea?