Look, I’ll be honest. I have met numerous weed smokers in my life from my former Stepfather through to my DP (who hasn’t smoked it for years but smoked it every day for a few years before we met). I am yet to see the positive effects people seem to bleat on about.
So my Stepdad was abusive, he was extremely paranoid and convinced I was out to get him
. You could chalk this down to mental illness but I don’t think the bag of weed he smoked every single day helped matters... If he hadn’t had his spliff he became even more aggressive so definitely was addicted.
My DP smoked it for approx six years but had stopped a few years before we met. He often says he wishes he’d never smoked it because his memory is now shot to shit and he does have bouts of paranoia still to this day. His friends say the same thing.
DP’s sister is still a weed smoker, has been for approx 12 years. She smokes it every day and is definitely very addicted. It makes her aggressive, extremely selfish, lazy and always begging for money
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I have met a few former friends who also smoked it daily. All of them lacked motivation, were incredibly lacklustre and also didn’t seem to be able to talk about anything other than weed and how amazing it is (never looked it).
I have tried it a few times and don’t understand the hype, it always just made me sleepy. Some people swear by its medicinal properties and I can’t argue with that but do I think it should be legalised for recreational use? No, not really. Then again, I am also of the belief tobacco should be illegal.