Husband says I have issue with him going out

[NuovaMadre]

I’m due a baby any day and already have 3 young children. DH decided to go out Friday night, I asked him to be home at reasonable time because I’m exhausted and we have lots on. He was really stand offish with me, didn’t text or call me all night and came in at 3am. He said it wasn’t even that great a night and commented on another woman’s breasts which made me even more annoyed. When I tried to confront him about it he’s turned it on to me that has the problem, saying that I have an issue every time he goes out. I really don’t think this is fair or the case. He’s not out a lot but AIBU to ask that him to come home at reasonable time because maybe I might need him to drive me to the hospital?!!!

I think your not being unreasonable.

If you often ask him to come home earlier than he would like then on another occasion you may be unreasonable. If this is the only time you’ve asked him to come home early then he is definitely unreasonable.

Was he drinking? Could he has taken you to hospital? Was he contactable?

As for the comment regarding another woman’s body he’s a dick. But you know that.

He sounds disgusting, to be completely honest. Of course it's not unreasonable to want your husband to stay close most of the time when you're due at any time. He should want to do that himself, out of concern for you and the baby.

Says he only had 3 drinks but he smelt like he had more, couldn’t have driven me to hospital, had his phone but was ignoring me.