A man has started at my office and have the slight hots for him... we are on polite chatting terms but that’s it, I feel like there may be a frisson of interest (?) body language etc but unsure. He seems very professional. Came back today after a few days holiday and the first thing he asked was who I’d been away with and then a little bit of general chit chat - is that ridiculously standard and I’m just deluding myself? Thought it was odd as a first q