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AIBU?

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How to tell him?

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DipseeDaisee · 25/02/2019 01:02

Name Change, just in case.

Not really an AIBU - More Posting for traffic

So, I met this guy online about a month ago, we got chatting and we met up. I like him, he says he likes me, However, he has said he wants to take things slow, due to past relationships etc, I understood his reasons and agreed to go at his pace. Its now been a few weeks and we have seen each other pretty much every day since we met up, Ive been to his house a few times, he as been to mine, we've been out in the evenings drinking, cinema etc, Now, this is the thing - I know he said he wants to take things slow, but we dont even kiss, he doesnt show me any affection, he will put his hand on my leg/knee if we are sitting close to each other but that's about it, How can I tell him I want more, even a kiss would be good, just some sort of confirmation to show me he's in to me? I dont want to "scare" him off because I really like him, but I also dont want to be strung along either. Im just confused, i believe he does like me, as its usually him that messages to arrange meeting up. Is this more a reflection on me and my needs? Should i just walk away now, be patient or tell him how Im feeling?
Bloody dating is hard work !!

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DipseeDaisee · 25/02/2019 16:22

Bumping, as it was silly o'clock when I first posted.

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Justmuddlingalong · 25/02/2019 16:30

Tell him how you feel. He doesn't get to call all the shots. If it freaks him out, you'll have your answer and can walk away. Or you can walk away now. I find it odd that he wants to take it slowly, and yet you spend time together so often and regularly.

LaurieFairyCake · 25/02/2019 16:35

I'm a bit confused Confused

I would think 'take things slow' meant dating once a week not just in the area of intimacy

DipseeDaisee · 25/02/2019 16:41

That's what confuses me, the seeing each other all the time bit. I think hes keen, just weary maybe, I dunno, 'Spose all I can do is say how I feel and go from there.

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