To dislike family coming to my house

[amrscot]

I don't know if I am being completely unreasonable here but I dislike it when family members visit my house, particularly my brother.

My house isn't dirty or untidy, yet family members make passing snide comments about my way of living. I can't stand judgey people and I don't do it when I go their homes!

AIBU or does this happen to other people also?

YANBU but they only make remarks because you allow them to. Tell them to stop. If they carry on then don’t allow them into your home.

Don't invite them round.
If they suggest it, suggest right back that you go to them instead.

Ask them if they came to see you or your house. If they find your house so repelling perhaps they should stop coming?