Been suffering with glandular fever for over a week. I've been going into work, taking care of our toddler etc when I've felt up to it but I've been back and forth from the hospital I've been in so much pain and I've spent a lot of time in bed in pain, feeling weak and desperate to get better.
DP has been good, in most aspects. He's completely let me rest and occupied DS - he's took days off work to be able to do that. But still, the place has been a bit of a tip, there's been days where DS has no clean clothes and I'd have to ask him to go and get shopping after we already had nothing left.
I got slightly better over the weekend but I was still trying to rest so I could get back into work this week.
DS is at nursery today. DP is off work. I woke up with bad diarrhoea (sorry!) and vomiting so I'm also off work. DP dropped DS to nursery and I asked him if he could get me a smoothie and water and some food (because my tummy was so off). He told me he didn't have enough money for food, and brought back a smoothie and water. I assumed he was going to go back to the shop (this was at lunchtime) but instead, he's just played on his PS4 all day. I've made comments about how much I need food etc but he's just stayed on his PS4.
It's 5pm and the illness still hasn't let up, I'm up and down to the bathroom every 5 minutes. I asked him at about 4.40pm if he could just go and get DS from nursery and get me some food and he said yes. 15-20 minutes pass and I did shout at this point at the fact that it's 5pm, I've had everything coming out all ends of my system all day while still suffering with swollen glands and having a mild fever and I still haven't even ate one thing to try and help my tummy! He shouted at me to stop telling him what to do, told me I was well enough at the weekend to go and get my own food and that he is suffering bad with a headache (I've been putting it down to him being out at the weekend!) so he's also unwell and really wanted to rest and can't be assed going shopping. He shouted because he feels unwell and isn't up to 'running around for me' and cleaning etc (I literally just expect food to be in, some basic clean clothes for DS and the place not to look horrific!).
He's gone now on the 30 min trip to get DS from nursery and to bring some food back for me, I feel absolutely horrifically sick. I told him to get ibuprofen and paracetamol for his headache when he was at the shop this morning and he completely ignored that too! I get that he needs a rest but I feel seriously unwell and out of 4 hours sitting on his PS4, could he not have took a 10 minute trip to the shop? 